20 Things That Should Not Be Done In A Healthy Relationship

Nothing is perfect, it is not a mistake in our relationship. But we can certainly learn from mistakes and try to stop making those mistakes.

1. Do not Make Your Spouse Your whole Life

You do not have to do everything together or make it all about your partner. Have your own opinions, hobbies and experiences because you can not lose your identity or your independence, not just for obvious reasons, but also because you do not want to be attractive in its eyes.

2. Do not Compare Your Relationship to Others Relationships

We live in a world where the suffering and happiness of others can affect ourselves. But every relationship is different, not to mention what you see is not always what it seems. Just do your relationship well.

3. Do not Agree With Everything Your Spouse Say

Communication is very important for a healthy relationship but that does not mean you should not have your own thoughts and opinions. You must feel heard and appreciated.

4. Do not Give Up With Yourself

Always keep who you are and what you stand for. Being aware of your core values is amazing and will not only strengthen your confidence, but also your relationship.

5. Do not Try to Fix All Their Problems

Everyone just needs an outlet instead of trying to solve their problems, focus on what your partner is saying. Sometimes what they want is someone who can understand what they are experiencing, not a solution.

6. Do not Distract Your Spouse When Speaking

Get rid of the phone, turn off the TV, close the book. When your partner is talking to you, really listen to what they say.

7. Do not Focus on Negative Things

It's easy to do, but if you think about the positive qualities of your partner rather than the lack, you may see them in a new light.

8. Do not Forget to Say Thank You

Instead of saying something out of the ordinary, make sure you are sincerely grateful.

9. Do Not Respect Them

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10. Do not Constantly Criticize Them

Part of a healthy relationship means supporting and accepting your partner, without judgment. Underestimating them or trying to turn them into something they never liked will always produce feelings of hurt and resentment.

11. Do not Just Celebrate The Big Thing

Sometimes getting a baby to sleep through the night or having a good day at work is something worth celebrating.

12. Do not Give Up Just For The Little Things

13. Do not Just Assume But Ask

You may think that you know inside and outside of him, but that does not always mean you know what they think. And ask her to clarify so you're sure.

14. No Must Be Always True

15. Do not Hide Something

If you do not express your feelings, anger and resentment will accumulate. Relationships will not always be happy if you hide your feelings.

16. Do not Say ' No Papa' When Your Spouse Asks What's Up

Maybe this is one of the most annoying things that ever existed.

17. Do not Silence Them Because You're Upset

Trying not to say anything will make you regret later.

18.Do not Bring More Things When You Sendang Problems

Fights can make a person lose control of himself but you have to hold back. You do not recall what you say, so it will lead to a bigger problem than you think.

19. Do not Forget the Compromise

Communication is important but compromise is the key. Your partner needs to know you appreciate their feelings and desires, that they are valued and relationships are run from two directions.

20. Do not Wait For Those Apologizing First

Sometimes you need to be a big person.